Posts Tagged ‘quandary’

Should a Girl Wear White After Labor Day?

Sep 05

by Victoria Robinson

Girlfriends, when in doubt about an etiquette quandary I always head straight to that etiquette doyenne herself, Emily Post. Aside from my collection of both antique and modern Emily Post books, there is always the Emily Post Institute to find answers to life’s etiquette questions. Their answer as to whether one should wear white clothing after labor day gives us both a glimpse into why the rule started and what we should do today.

Back in Emily’s day—the nineteen 00s, 10s and 20s—the summer season was bracketed by Memorial Day and Labor Day. Society flocked en masse from town house to seaside “cottage” or mountain “cabin” to escape the heat. City clothes were left behind in exchange for lighter, whiter, summer costumes. Come fall and the return to the city, summer clothes were put away and more formal city clothes donned once more. It was an age when there was a dress code for practically every occasion, and the signal to mark the change between summer resort clothes and clothing worn for the rest of the year was encapsulated in the dictum “No white after Labor Day.” And it stuck. Of course you can wear white after Labor Day, and it makes perfect sense to do so in climates where September’s temperatures are hardly fall-like. Even in the dead of winter in northern New England the fashionable wear white wools, cashmeres, and down-filled parkas. The true interpretation is “wear what’s appropriate—for the weather, the season, or the occasion.” So on a blistering Indian Summer September day here in Vermont, you’ll catch us wearing our “whites”.
Emily Post Institute

Spiritually speaking, a girl should wear “white” all year-round. King Solomon told us, “Always be clothed in white …” The “white clothing” he was speaking of, was not a reference to outer wear, but the purity of one’s heart. In the book of Revelation, the Apostle John speaks of people dressed in white when he says, “They have washed their robes in the blood of the Lamb and have made them white.” This is how you can be dressed in white—through the shed blood of Jesus Christ.

As well as putting on the “white clothing” of salvation, we need to always be mindful of keeping our “whites” clean. We cannot do this apart from the miracle cleansing power of our Lord. Our part is to confess our sins and allow Him to make us whiter than snow.

Girlfriends, is there something you need to confess today? If so, take time right now to ask the Lord to cleanse you from all unrighteousness and marvel at how white your clothes will be!

Dearest girlfriends, let us enjoy dressing in beautiful white clothing all year-round through a repentant heart.

Always be clothed in white, and always anoint your head with oil. ~ Ecclesiastes 9:8 NIV
… They will walk with me, dressed in white, for they are worthy. He who overcomes will, like them, be dressed in white. I will never blot out his name from the book of life, but will acknowledge his name before my Father and his angels. ~ Revelation 3:4-5 NIV
… “Do you know who these people are that are dressed in white robes? Do you know where they come from?” “Sir,” I answered, “you must know.” Then he told me: “These are the ones who have gone through the great suffering. They have washed their robes in the blood of the Lamb and have made them white. ~ Revelation 7:13-14 CEV
I counsel you to buy from me gold refined in the fire, so you can become rich; and white clothes to wear, so you can cover your shameful nakedness; and salve to put on your eyes, so you can see. ~ Revelation 3:18 NIV
Cleanse me with hyssop, and I will be clean; wash me, and I will be whiter than snow. ~ Psalm 51:7 NIV
His clothes became dazzling white, whiter than anyone in the world could bleach them. ~ Mark 9:3 NIV

What to do … What to do?

Dec 20

by Victoria Robinson

When your back is against the wall and you just do not know what to do, a story in the book of Second Chronicles gives the answer. When under attack, Jehoshaphat, the king of Judah, said, “We do not know what to do, but our eyes are upon you.” Girlfriends, when you just do not now what to do, set your eyes on your heavenly Father and believe He holds the answer to your quandary.

Sometimes the thought of what to do does not come prior to facing the situation. Such is the case when Jesus told us in the book of Luke not to be concerned about what to say when we are brought before rulers and authorities. The Holy Spirit will teach us what to say when we need it.

It is easy for panic to set in when one is unsure of what to do. The peace of God can calm you at times like these. Simply present your petition for help to God with thanksgiving, knowing He will direct you and the peace of God bring comfort for your troubled soul.

Dearest girlfriends, let us set our eyes upon our heavenly Father when we do not know what to do and trust in His direction.

O our God, will you not judge them? For we have no power to face this vast army that is attacking us. We do not know what to do, but our eyes are upon you.” ~ 2 Chronicles 20:12 NIV
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. ~ Philippians 4:6-7 NIV
“When you are brought before synagogues, rulers and authorities, do not worry about how you will defend yourselves or what you will say, for the Holy Spirit will teach you at that time what you should say.” ~ Luke 12:11-12 NIV